5 Things To Remember If You’re Questioning Your Sexuality

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I grew up in one of the most conservative, homophobic, and psychotically religious households.

Being gay wasn’t an option.

Here are the things I wish I’d been told when it dawned on me I was a lesbian.

It’s okay to be…




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