8 Signs You and Your Partner are in a Healthy Relationship

4 min readMay 4, 2022

Working it out is always an option

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Doubts and worries are bound to arise in a long-term relationship, even if you are certain that your partner is “the one.”

Asking yourself whether or not you’re with the right person implies these doubts. There’s no clear sign that your partner is the one from just meeting them, but because life isn’t straightforward, there are doubts and worries anyway.

Here are a few ways to figure out whether or not you’re on the right track.

You’re comfortable together

The best way to find out if someone is a good match for you is to notice how comfortable you feel around the person.

Even after an argument or tense moment, the overall vibe should be relaxed and natural.

If you’re uncomfortable during moments that should otherwise be lighthearted, something might be off.

If you’re able to relax in each other’s company, that’s a solid sign you’re with a keeper.

They encourage authenticity

You are safe when you show your true personality.

You should never change who you are just to impress someone or to please your partner.

The only important thing regarding acceptance is that they take you as you are and enjoy the way you behave (as long as your behavior is healthy and encourages growth).

You’re excited when you see them

No matter how long you’ve been together, there will still be moments when you are excited to see each other after being away from each other.

Excitement is a definite indicator that you’re with the person you belong with.

Relationships aren’t always sunshine and rainbows, but if there’s still a twinge of excitement when you’re together, things are good.

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